Dating does not help with your love life

Contrary to the popular misconception "dating helps you get more experience", that is very not true. Dating is a recreational activity and you won't get any true love out of it. In fact, this "experience" is not useful, it will actually damage your chance of finding your true love, because the more you date, the more you will damage your potential marriage relationship, because when you get married, the relationship you have with your partner will not seem special anymore, because that partner really just feels like the "next bird in the line".


However, there is a better alternative to dating. For an example, arranged marriages is not as bad as they may seem. With that method, you ask your parents to find a suitable partner for you, and when they find a potential partner, you get to know that partner by asking the partner's relatives about that partner's character and personality.
And when you find yourself that you have special feelings for this partner, then you can marry. If you don't have special feelings for this partner, then you can tell your parents that, and your parents will start looking for another suitable spouse. With that method, it will increase your chance of finding true love, as you will know the person's true character and there'll be no confusions, plus, abstaining any intimacy until marriage will make the intimacy more exciting and passionate when you DO get married.
However, that's not the only decent method. If you find a potential partner that you intend to marry, in university or work, whatever place, you can find out about this person's character through their relatives and tell your own parents about that person. Then if it works out (meaning if you truly do appreciate each other's personalities and you are sure that it'll work) then you marry.
And when you find yourself that you have special feelings for this partner, then you can marry. If you don't have special feelings for this partner, then you can tell your parents that, and your parents will start looking for another suitable spouse. With that method, it will increase your chance of finding true love, as you will know the person's true character and there'll be no confusions, plus, abstaining any intimacy until marriage will make the intimacy more exciting and passionate when you DO get married.

However, that's not the only decent method. If you find a potential partner that you intend to marry, in university or work, whatever place, you can find out about this person's character through their relatives and tell your own parents about that person. Then if it works out (meaning if you truly do appreciate each other's personalities and you are sure that it'll work) then you marry.


That method has proven to be more successful than the dating method in (in Islamic countries, Muslims do the "courting" method, as it's the method that Allah has advised them to do, but I personally think that this method is better for anyone, Muslim or not).
When you marry your first AND true love, your relationship will be a lot more special. Plus, it's a lot more romantic if you have intimacy with someone, who's never had these pleasurable feelings with anyone but you.